The Brutal Reality of Solo Parenting After Moving Abroad | The Emotional & Financial Toll| Tola Lusi

​​Hi lovelies, and welcome back!
​In today's very spontaneous and honest sit-down video, I'm talking about a tough reality many face when moving to a new country: Solo Parenting. After my husband traveled for work for just one week, the full weight of solo parenting—especially without a support community—hit me hard.
​This isn't specific to the UK, but I discuss how the lack of community, cultural differences, and the strict local systems make it uniquely challenging here.
​In this video, I share my raw thoughts on:
​Emotional & Mental Load: The loneliness and burnout of being the only "village" raising your children.
​The Financial Strain: The high cost of living, bills, and children's needs, and the importance of dual income.
​The Time Pressure & UK School System: Why you cannot be late for drop-off and pick-up, and how a lack of routine can lead to escalation with social services.
​Coping Mechanisms & Routine: How to stay sane through batch cooking, online shopping, and structuring your family's schedule.
​Raising Independent Children: Why I'm actively teaching my children life skills now (my retirement plan!).
​Whether you're a couple looking to support each other or an individual navigating this journey alone, this video is for you.
​What are your tips and coping mechanisms for making it all work? Please share them in the comment section below!
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​0:00 - Intro & Topic Reveal: Solo Parenting is Not for the Weak
1:35 - Emotional Reality: Loneliness & Burnout
3:00 - Financial Strain: Bills & Cost of Living
4:40 - Time Pressure & School Runs (UK Rules)
9:25 - Coping Mechanisms: Sharing the Burden
10:45 - The Power of Routine (Work Schedules & Sleep Patterns)
13:10 - Final Thoughts & Community Engagement
13:52 - Outro

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